Built for parents, backed by experts.

Welcome to Nurture Network!

We are a community that's built by parents and backed by experts.

We are a community of support and encouragement: one with your desire to give your child what's best

Parenting Made Easy

We believe that to be a good parent, one must be well informed. We provide our members with helpful resources on parenting, nutrition, domesticity and womanhood.

Fellow parents in the community share their own experiences and helpful tips which keeps our resource materials up-to-date.

Ask the Expert

Thanks to our resident experts, we are also able to provide sound professional and medical advice for the members of the community.

Share your experiences and become part of the community today.

Join the Nurture Network

Getting Daddy to Help Out More at Home

A father’s effort is as essential as a mother’s when it comes to taking care of a child. But how can we encourage the dads to be of more help for the moms inside the home? Here are some things every mom should know about.
 
During Pregnancy
Ever heard of the statement “We’re pregnant”? While some wives don’t want their husbands saying this because they aren’t exactly the ones who experience the nausea, back pains, heartburn, and many other pregnancy discomforts, the truth is that this statement may actually be helpful for you and your husband. After all, he is the one beside you who can see all of these discomforts, and he often suffers from the consequences of it — our mood swings and urgent cravings.
So give the hubbies a break and invite them to join your pregnancy world. Involve him in everything. From the first check-up, down to choosing what kind of crib, strollers and other stuff you would need. Explain it to him thoroughly, have your OB explain it to him in English-human-form. Believe me, your husband is as excited as you are to welcome your new pair of chubby cheeks. At the same time you feel nervous on how you will raise a human mind, he also feels the same way.
Don’t forget to reassure him that he will be a great Father to your child. This will definitely give him an incentive to go further than he did before when it comes to making efforts. Men loves reassurance just as us, women.
 
After Birth
If pregnancy was hard, then here comes another record breaking for the word “hard”. But just as you have survived pregnancy, you too will survive the After Birth stage. This time would really mean and need both your efforts as parents. Have a schedule where both of you can still function fully.
If you’ve become a mom for the first time, then both of you are experiencing all of this for the first time, so this simply means that a lot grace from each other are required. Don’t despise your husband just because he forgot to put baby powder on your baby’s butt cheeks before he put the diaper.
During this stage, it is very important to be very specific to your husband. Have a written instruction in the nursery room if you have to, if you’re a bit of a control patrol to make sure that what he does is as close as possible to what you normally do. But make sure that after everything that your hubby has done, make sure to commend him and to thank him. It will never hurt for you to appreciate his efforts. There are some guys who are natural at this, also there are some who are the opposite. Don’t forget that men have the capacity of being a parent just the same as a woman.
 
Growing Years
This would seem a bit easier for both of you since you’ve got this routine going on. Just like during pregnancy that you have involved your husband in everything, do the same as your kid grows up. Include your husband in everything, though this time he probably wouldn’t need an OB to explain it to him.
 
References:
http://www.parentingweekly.com/parenting_information/getting_father_to_help_more_with_baby.htm

What is your parenting style?

When I go to the grocery to buy milk, I always (Choose 1):

Try something different and stick with the brand if my child likes it.

Make sure that I buy what other moms are buying.

Look at the nutritional values.

Get what the pediatrician advises me to buy.

Buy a brand that has value for money.

Get whatever brand is available.

Please choose your answer.

Want more info about the survey?




Ask the Expert

In order to post your questions to our expert you need to sign in. Not a member? Register now and get access to personalized contents, tailored newsletters and personalized content.


Related Articles

  • Date Night Ideas at Home for Busy Parents

    Date nights give married couples a chance to reconnect without the kids chiming in every after a few seconds.

  • Tips to Manage Your Family? Eating Habits

    Every mother wants her family, especially her children, to eat healthy. Healthy eating means eating a variety of food from all food groups, choosing fresh over processed food, and consuming less fatty and sugary treats (though that does not mean that your child can?t eat desserts on occasion!).

  • How to Recover from Mommy Burnout

    Most parents won’t likely admit to it, but there comes a point when you feel like you can’t give anything to your kids anymore. If you feel that way, then you are most likely suffering from parenting burnout.

Suggested Articles

An Emergency Home Care Package

Whether we like it or not, emergencies are bound to happen in the household, and we want to be ready.

2 years ago

IMPORTANT NOTICE

WHO recommends exclusive breastfeeding up to 6 months of age. Wyeth Nutrition fully supports this and continued breastfeeding, along with the introduction of complementary foods as advised by your doctor or health authority.